"hey, why not take everyone to the bathroom to watch me pee?"
My next was
"how is it relational and why do I want people to watch me pee?"
I haven't answered either of these questions yet.
I chose instead to shave my face, something I have to do at least twice a week. The act of shaving a face is mysterious to many (it seems body hair hasn't overcome my peers in quite the way it has me). I shaved in the same way I do by myself; with music. The music was what we all experienced together, with shaving as a spectacle for the music to accompany.